It’s quite ironical that there are women who
willingly agree to be side chicks.
With the rate at which women cry foul when they’re cheated on
and how society condemns cheating men, one expects that women would value
exclusivity beyond compromise but that’s apparently not the case.
For some
reason, some babes have no qualms with being side chicks and
would gladly be your available second choice despite a knowledge of your real
babe.
1. Convenience
According
to Bloom, a millennial who just concluded NYSC, women agree
to side chicks roles because of the emotional convenience that often comes with
the it.
Not much is expected of you. Your ‘boyfriend’ spends most of his
time with the main chick, alleviating some of the ‘pressure’ that would have
automatically been on you.
2.
Attention
Chinaza says
“it is a matter of attention.”
If a guy treats a girl right and somehow satisfies every of her
emotional and other demands, I don’t think she’s going to be bothered that
there’s someone else, especially if she has had bad, toxic relationships in the
past, she says.
3.
Money
Financial benefits is all that counts to some women. If a guy
has deep pockets, they won’t mind being his side chick. So far bills are being
paid, no problem.
4.
Sex
According
to Ashley Moore, a relationship columnist at Humans
Mag, “Another reward is the sexual pleasure. Let’s be honest; a man is not
going to supply a side-chick with anything unless there is some type of
intercourse involved.”
And if the man somehow offers nothing but bomb sex, it becomes all too easy for
the woman to consent to being the second choice.
5.
Too late to stop
Sometimes women get deceived into these relationships, only to
then find out along the line that there’s actually someone else.
At that point however, they’d gone so far that going back and
being left with no one is no longer a palatable option.
So they keep on holding on to the promise that soon enough, the
guy would become fed up of the main chick and dump her.
Sadly, this hardly ever happens.
Angela Valdez of
“Power” should have a thing or two to say about this
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